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đ The 2-Minute Power Move That Makes People Take You Seriously (Even If You're Chill & Quiet)

Ever feel like you're being overlooked just because you're not the loudest person in the room? Good news: You don't need to change your personality to command respectâyou just need 2 minutes and a bit of body language magic.
This simple trick comes from a piece by Alessia Fransisca, inspired by the work of social psychologist Amy Cuddy (aka the queen of power poses).
đş Whatâs a Power Pose?
Think Wonder Woman stance. Think arms wide, chest open, shoulders back. Itâs basically your body yelling, âI got this,â even if your voice is whispering, âPlease donât call on me.â
Just two minutes of holding a strong, open pose can:
đź Boost your testosterone (confidence hormone) by 20%
đ˝ Lower your cortisol (stress hormone) by 25%
Your body starts to believe youâre confident⌠and so does everyone else.
đ§ââď¸ Your 3-Step âStealth Confidenceâ Ritual
This is your pre-meeting, pre-presentation, pre-big-convo warmup. No one has to know.
1. Claim Your Space (45 seconds)
Stand tall. Feet hip-width. Hands on hips. Breathe in for 4 counts, out for 8. Pick a spot to focus on. Youâre grounded, youâre calm, youâre powerful.
2. Silent Power Stance (60 seconds)
Lean in a bit. Keep your palms open, shoulders relaxed, chin up. Think: âI belong here.â Because, duhâyou do.
3. Enter Like a Boss (15 seconds)
Walk into the room (or Zoom) just a bit slower than usual. It sends major calm-and-in-control vibes.
đ Where to Use It
Intern Ship IRL Events: Before you walk into the room or meet someone new, take two minutes to strike your pose (bathroom stalls and quiet corners work great!). Youâll radiate grounded, confident energyâand trust us, people will notice. â¨
Meetings: Sit confidentlyâdonât shrink into your chair.
Tough conversations: Stand strong, breathe slow.
Video calls: Camera at eye level, chin slightly down = đ energy.
đŻ Try the 7-Day âStealth Confidenceâ Challenge
Build it into your routine like brushing your teeth (but way more fun):
Days 1â2: Power pose morning & night
Days 3â4: Use it before chill convos (like ordering coffee)
Days 5â6: Pose before real stuffâmeetings, interviews, pitches
Day 7: Reflect. Did people seem more tuned in? More impressed? More âWhoa, whoâs that?â
This is the kind of habit that sneaks up on youâin the best way. You stay you: calm, kind, thoughtful. But your presence? That gets a quiet upgrade.
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